You remember that primary song, don't you? I do. I love it. Who doesn't love singing the words "Tra-la-la" over and over??!! I have tried to make an effort to make sure my kids know I love serving them, in the hopes they will follow my lead and find joy in serving others. Don't get me wrong, I have been known to say the not-so-nice words of, "Can't you find something to do\eat\play that I don't have to help you with???!!!". Some days I just can't muster up the happy face to cut one more apple, pour one more drink, find one more piece of paper, locate the same lost toy, and so on. But, I really do try to say the words, "I'd be happy to", when my kids ask for my help.
The other morning I was putting fresh sheets on my bed and I asked Seth and Addie if they'd like to help. They did. Yay. I found myself singing that beloved primary song and soon they were joining in and singing with me. Yes, even Seth sang, and he does not always sing the morning song that starts our day.
So then, I asked Seth to come in the bathroom so I could put gel in his hair and I found myself still singing but I changed the words to this: "When I'm helping, I'm happy, and I sing as I go. For I love to help Seth, cause I just love him so". He smiled at me. A sweet, precious smile. So I sang the same song for Addie as I fixed her hair. Same sweet smile. Then it was Sasha's turn to get her hair done and again I sang to her. She liked it too. It was such a simple thing to do, but it really brightened my day, and sure made my kids smile. Serving others is such a blessing and I want to always sing as I go. Tra-la-la-la-la-la-la, Tra-la-la-la-la-la!!
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That is such a sweet moment you shared! I feel the same way. It is hard sometimes, but we need to enjoy serving our kids.
I loved this post. All day today I tried to remember to sing and be happier. Why is that always so hard?? Well, it doesn't seem hard for you but I'm a nose to the grindstone type and forget that teaching my children joy in the journey (even the journey of folding their clothes) is what it is all about. Awesome.
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youre such a good mommy!! hope youre doing well!! how is the little one?
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