Question #2

What is my favorite and least-favorite part of homeschooling? 

Hmmmm, that is a good question.  I have many things I love about homeschooling, but I'd have to say I love how it has changed me as a person, and as a parent.  To undertake the task of homeschooling your kids is very daunting.  I worry all the time that I am not doing it well, or right, or that I am doing a disservice to my kids.  BUT, changing the way my kids are educated, is very, very liberating.  Knowing that I can do this, that I AM doing this feels wonderful.  I grew up as the peace keeper in my family, and I learned to not make waves.  To go with the flow.  If things aren't going the way I want, oh well.  Don't go against the grain.  Don't do things that everyone else isn't doing.  I am still like this, but by making the choice to homeschool, I have learned there is something I can do if I am not happy.  I CAN take charge and change things the way I want them, and it's ok.  The sky really is the limit and I feel like there isn't anything I can't do or try.........within reason, of course.  It has given me so much vision and courage and I am grateful for that.

What don't I like??

Hmmmmm, another good question.  I would have to say I don't like that some people do watch us as homeschoolers.  To make sure we are doing it right, as if there was a right way anyway.  I have had encounters with people who do mean well, but feel it is their duty to tell me my child isn't measuring up.  That is very hard to take and I have shed a tear or two over it.  But, as time goes on I am learning to take it with a grain of salt....

It is also hard sometimes to feel out of the loop.  Conversations about tracks, school parties, teachers, and so on that I am present for, but unable to join in on can feel lonely sometimes.  But, I realize I am in the minority and converstaions like these are going to happen with me around, so I better just smile and add a comment if I have one.

I love it when my non-homeschooling chums ask me how school is going and I in turn make an effort to show support to their decision to have their kids attend public school.  I have many good friends who I love dearly and who support me and my homeschooling ways!  :)